Sunday, October 7, 2007

We're soaring. Flying. There's not a star in heaven that we can't reach.

I don't understand guys...especially the ones I call my friends...

My roommate was dating this guy (well, kind of anyway) and people were talking about it constantly because he's bisexual and she is definitely straight. Anyway, all of his fraternity brothers were pleased that he finally found a girl...well, their joy has been short-lived because not long ago this guy told my roommate that he preferred men to women [he's not gay though] and that he didn't consider the two of them to be dating. So that pretty much ended it.

So since all this has happened, what rights to jealousy does this guy have? I mean, it's not like the two of them were anything special. The most intimate thing they did was kiss...and that doesn't mean anything. They weren't exclusive. They didn't sleep together. And according to him, they were never dating.

Sometimes jealousy is a good thing. It has been in my case here lately. It's let me know that the guy I'm interested in is interested in me (or at least that's how I interpret it). But in this case, it's completely pointless. The way I see it, this guy doesn't want her, but he doesn't want anyone else to have her either.

But I have no idea how this works to his advantage.

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