So you know how it feels when you first get together with someone? How happy you are, but also how attentive you are to every little detail about your "relationship" with that person? How when people who may or may not know about the two of you make random comments about the person that happen to show the person in a negative light you don't necessarily believe the comments but it sticks in the back of your mind? It's one of those things you can't avoid because you like the person and want to be with them and you want to find out whether you like him on your own, not based on the comments of others. Yeah...